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The Stonehaven Assisted Living & Memory Care

Starting at $4,730 /month
10802 East 81st Street, Tulsa, OK, USA
 
Conveniently located near TCC South Campus with easy access to Highway 169, The Stonehaven offers a welcoming home in the heart of Tulsa. With Assisted Living and Memory Care, the community provides care and everyday comfort surrounded by friends and familiar faces.

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A Trusted Approach to Senior Living

At The Stonehaven, you’ll find more than Assisted Living and Memory Care—you’ll find a rhythm of life that feels reassuring and meaningful. From evening strolls to a game of cards or bingo with friends, every detail reflects comfort, dignity, and connection. In the summer, the grounds come alive with events in the fresh air, adding to the vibrant, social atmosphere that defines our senior living community in Tulsa, Oklahoma. It’s classic living with everything you want, and all the opportunities to connect you need.
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Personalized Support, Shaped Around You

Life at The Stonehaven brings together everything you need in one place, including comfort, connection, and care that adapts as life does. With every level of service thoughtfully designed to support your well-being, you can relax knowing The Stonehaven will always feel like home.

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Assisted Living

Everyday assistance provided with dignity, so you can focus on the things you enjoy most. Our associates are here 24/7 with steady, dependable support.

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Specialized care built around familiar routines and trusted therapies

Memory Care

Specialized care built around familiar routines and trusted therapies that create comfort, recognition, and belonging.

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An Invitation to Feel at Home in Tulsa

The best way to get to know The Stonehaven is to experience it. Step into our welcoming spaces, meet caring associates, and see how life here combines the reassurance of support with the warmth of community.

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Nov 10, 2026 | 10:00AM OR 2:00PM

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The Stonehaven
10802 E 81st St, Tulsa, OK 74133

RSVP: Nov 10 | 10:00AMRSVP: Nov 10 | 2:00PM
Nov 18, 2026 | Pick Up Between 2:00-3:00PM

Pie To Go

Take a tour, take a pie! Meet the team, take a tour, and take home a delicious pie as our gift to you! Reservation required.

The Stonehaven
10802 E 81st St, Tulsa, OK 74133

RSVP: Pick Up Between 2:00-3:00PM | Nov 18
Each day offers something fresh

Programs That Bring Comfort and Connection

When you first arrive at The Stonehaven, you may not be sure what to expect. But for many, it doesn’t take long to feel the “spark.” A morning walk with a new friend, a spur of the moment art class that reignites your love of drawing (which might come in handy with grandkids) and the quiet sense of peace knowing your needs are personally cared for.
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A Variety of Options for Everyday Living

Find the space that feels just right. Our variety of floor plans combines comfort and practicality for everyday living. Whether you love to gather with friends or unwind in a space all your own, each Assisted Living or Memory Care apartment offers the freedom to make it truly yours. Explore all the available layouts on our apartments page and see how natural home can feel.
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Life happens here

It’s a new day. And there is no lawn to mow, plumbing to fix or long “To Do” List. Take a look below, what combination of activities and amenities will it be today?
Activity Room
Activity Room
Bistro Café
Bistro Café
Country Kitchen
Country Kitchen
Deficiency Free
Deficiency Free
Dining Room
Dining Room
Fitness Center
Fitness Center
Hair Salon
Hair Salon
Library
Library
Movie Theater
Movie Theater
Patio
Patio
Post Office
Post Office
Private Dining
Private Dining
Pub
Pub
Spa
Spa
The Neighborhood

There is Always Something to Do in Tulsa

Nestled in south Tulsa, The Stonehaven offers convenient access to shopping, dining, parks, and local attractions while providing a peaceful place to call home. Residents enjoy outings to favorites like Mother Road Market, nearby restaurants, and Route 66 landmarks, while family members appreciate being just about 20 minutes from Tulsa International Airport for easy visits.

Every day offers meaning & purpose

Life at The Stonehaven is centered on relationships and a lively courtyard that brings people together. Friends gather for coffee, associates stop by to chat, and families are always welcome. Music, games, and group events often fill the space, creating a social rhythm that makes each day feel vibrant. Every moment offers new chances to enjoy the steady comfort of a place that brings a new sense of life and all its possibilities.

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I am so appreciative of the care and attention I receive, from my laundry being done beautifully and neatly, to enjoying delicious, freshly prepared meals each day, to the thoughtful and engaging activities that keep life here lively and fulfilling.

Margaret Terrapin, Stonehaven resident

Connected communities across Tulsa, Oklahoma, quality care

Alongside The Stonehaven, you’ll find other senior living communities in the Tulsa, Oklahoma area that share the same commitment to dependable care and everyday comfort. Each has its own character while carrying forward Legend Senior Living’s values of dignity, support, and connection.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What types of senior living options are available at The Stonehaven?

The Stonehaven offers both Assisted Living and Memory Care, allowing residents to receive personalized support in one welcoming community. Whether someone needs a little extra help with daily activities or specialized dementia care, our team creates individualized care plans designed to meet changing needs.

What types of programs, events, and activities are provided?

Every day offers opportunities to stay engaged through fitness classes, social gatherings, creative programs, and local outings. Residents enjoy activities like Wii bowling, gardening, themed celebrations, performances from local groups like the Okie Stompers, lunch outings to Tulsa restaurants, and visits to Route 66 destinations including Mother Road Market and the Blue Whale of Catoosa. Visit our event calendar and Facebook page to see community life in action.

Can residents transition between levels of care at The Stonehaven?

Yes. Because The Stonehaven offers both Assisted Living and Memory Care, residents who need additional support can often transition within the same community. Remaining in a familiar environment with trusted caregivers can help make the transition more comfortable while providing families with added peace of mind.

What are the benefits of living in a senior living community in Tulsa?

Tulsa combines the convenience of a vibrant city with a welcoming community atmosphere. Residents have access to leading healthcare providers, including Saint Francis Health System, Ascension St. John, and Hillcrest Medical Center, along with shopping, restaurants, parks, museums, and Route 66 attractions. Family members traveling from out of town also appreciate that Tulsa International Airport is only about 20 minutes away, making visits simple and convenient.

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See how comfort, care, and community come together in Tulsa, OK. Schedule your tour today and discover what makes The Stonehaven feel like home.
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